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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 21.06.2025 00:01

How does one succeed in life?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What was the craziest place that you had sex with someone in public?

Does not procrastinate.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How do you get people to follow your Quora Space?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Why do old men think young women and girls would want them over guys their own age?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Do not set goals—set systems.

My boyfriend has a major problem/addiction with watching porn, nude/sex scenes on movies and shows, watching hot young girls on tiktok, Instagram, Twitter, and onlyfans. He hides it and lies about it. Should I be concerned with him cheating? What do?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What is the most memorable thing that happened in your college days?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What I need from you?

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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That's it for today.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I handle my distrust and jealousy for my partner?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Ask yourself:

Do you think President-Elect Donald Trump won the presidency fair and square, or do you think the GOP resorted to blatant unlawful practices to tilt the election?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Why do some women alter their faces by so-called cosmetic surgeries (on their eyes, cheeks, lips, chin, jaw) that making them look like Donald Duck or puffy aliens, while for most men these unnatural facial changes are ridiculous or even disgusting?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Making more friends is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Do you suck dicks with no reciprocation?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Procrastinates a lot.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.